Guy Reams (00:01.378)
This is day 132, Don't Believe the Hype. There's a quiet dangerous force that can steal your time, dilute your focus, and push you down paths that were never meant for you. It operates in the background, making you feel like you're behind, like there's something essential that you're missing. This force is called FOMO, the fear of missing out, and it is the power to hijack your priorities if you let it.
FOMO thrives on a sense of scarcity. It whispers that opportunities are fleeting, that if you don't act now, you'll never get another chance. It plays on our insecurities, convincing us that success and fulfillment are just beyond our reach, unless we jump on whatever trend is currently dominating the conversation. The problem? Most of the time, that urgency is an illusion. The manufactured illusion of social proof.
One of the most deceptive aspects of FOMO is how it leverages social proof. We are wired to take cues from others, assuming that if many people are talking about something, it must be important. But in today's digital world, this instinct is being manipulated in ways we just don't recognize. What we see online is not an objective reflection of reality. It is an algorithmic, curated experience designed to reinforce what we already show interest in.
If you start searching for a particular topic, the internet will feed you more of it. Soon, it appears as if everyone is talking about it, as if this idea, this opportunity, this movement must be significant. But here's the truth. Just because something is repeated often does not make it valuable. The echo chamber effect creates the illusion of widespread consensus, even when the idea itself is mediocre or irrelevant to your life.
Mistaken Authority and Emotional Engagement Another layer of deception comes from mistaken authority. We assume that because an idea is widely covered, it must have merit. When we see someone constantly appearing in our feeds on TV or in articles, we unconsciously assign them credibility. The more familiar they become, the more we trust them, not because of their expertise, but because of sheer repetition. This is how average ideas gain traction.
Guy Reams (02:28.93)
Not because they are brilliant or groundbreaking, but because they fit neatly into a hype cycle that feeds itself. Visibility creates credibility. Credibility creates more visibility and the cycle continues. Meanwhile, our emotions are triggered or engaged at every turn. We see others getting in early on something and we feel left out. We hear success stories and wonder if we should be doing the same.
We start questioning our own path not because we lack direction, but because we've been tricked into thinking that we're behind. Success comes from value, not from trends. The danger of believing the hype is that it distracts you from what truly matters. Success does not come from chasing trends, reacting to the latest buzz, or worrying about what others are doing. It comes from creating real value, steadily, consistently,
and with intention. Ask yourself, if no one were talking about this, would it still matter? If no one were watching, would I still pursue it? These are questions that will keep you grounded. Instead of reacting to the manufactured urgency of FOMO, take a step back, focus on what is real, what is lasting, and what actually moves you forward. The latest hype will fade, but the value that you build will always endure.