Guy Reams (00:05.442)
Day 83, the only resolution that works. There is a moment each year when people decide to become different. They wait for the calendar to turn, for the clock to strike midnight, for the symbolic fresh start that comes with a new year. They make promises to themselves about who they will become, what they will accomplish, and what they will finally change. But most of these promises will be broken before the month ends, not because the goals were wrong, but because the timing was
The resolution that waits for a special date is already compromised. It carries with it the seed of its own failure. Because if the change matters enough to commit to, it matters enough to begin right now. Not tomorrow. Not next week. Not when the conditions are perfect. Now. This moment. Before the thought can fade. Before the doubt can creep in. Before the world can offer a thousand reasons to delay. I have made resolutions that failed and I have made commitments that held.
The difference was never about the size of the goal or the strength of my willpower. The difference was about when I started. The resolutions that failed were the ones I postponed. I told myself I would begin on January 1st or Monday morning or after I finished this project or when I felt more ready. I gave myself permission to delay and that delay became a habit. By the time the special date arrived, the resolve had already weakened. The urgency had faded. The commitment had become optional.
The commitments that I held were the one, the commitments that I have held are the ones that I started immediately. The moment I decided to change, I took the first step. Not a big step, not a perfect step, just the next small thing that moved me in the right direction. I did not wait for the calendar to give me permission. I did not wait for motivation to arrive. I did not wait for the conditions to align. I began and that beginning created momentum. The first step made the second step easier.
The second step made the third step inevitable. The commitment became real because it was already in motion. This is the truth about resolutions. They are not made on special dates. They are made in ordinary moments when you decide that the gap between who you are and who you want to be is no longer acceptable. They are made when you stop waiting for permission and start acting on your own authority. They are made when you realize that the only time you have is now.
Guy Reams (02:30.274)
and the only person who can change your life is you. The special date is a trap. It gives you an excuse to delay. It lets you believe that the change will be easier later. They will be more ready when the moment arrives, but the moment never comes. There is no perfect time. There is no magical alignment of circumstance will make the work effortless. There's only the decision to begin and the willingness to keep going when it gets hard. The resolution that starts now is different.
It does not rely on external markers. It does not need the validation of a new year or a fresh week. It exists because you decided it should exist. It holds because you are already living it. You are not waiting to become the person who keeps commitments. You are that person right now in this moment taking the first step. This is not about perfection. The first step will be messy. You will stumble. You will doubt yourself. You will face resistance from the world and from your own mind.
But you will also have something that the delayed resolution does not have. You will have momentum. You will have proof that you are capable of beginning. You will know that the change is already happening. Not in some distant future, but right now. The people who transform their lives are not the ones who wait for the right moment. They're the ones who create the moment through their actions. They're the ones who understand that resolve is not a feeling. It is a decision followed by an action. It is the willingness to start before you feel ready.
To move before the path is clear. To commit before the outcome is certain. If you have a resolution started now, not on the first of the year, not on Monday, not when you finish reading this, now, take the smallest possible step, write the first sentence, make the first call, do the first rep. The step does not have to be impressive. It just has to be real. It just has to move you forward because the second day you delay, the second you delay is the second the resolve loses power.
The only resolution you will keep is the one that you start immediately, regardless of the special date. The calendar will turn whether you act or not. The new year will arrive whether you are ready or not. But the change you want will only happen if you begin. And the best time to start is always right now.